I am 17 he is 24, is it worth giving it a try??

Are you in love with someone much elder or younger?
If so,what would you do?


Couple with a big age gap have special challenges that "normal" couples don't have.However,these challenges can be overcome with commitment,patience,communication,and most important of all,an open mind.


But why do we place age before love and happiness??
Finding love, and I don't mean relationships,I mean love,is hard enough.Yet it puzzles me all the time how the society puts a lots of emphasis on age,especially where the woman is older,when there are a lot of people in "right age relationships" which the society support,but are extremely unhappy...

I think we've lost the plot!
The sad thing is only decades from now,the society will see the light and the taboo attached to this will be history and a lot of people would have unnecesarily suffered for it!!
Why do we always take so long to learn?!

I often hear how's the relationship won't work,but often the reasons have very little to do with the compatibility of the two people and more to do with irrational socieltal pressures..

Would like to hear from those who oppose relationship where the woman is older/younger,and the man is adult/child.Perhaps I am missing something!!


Well,always remembering with this..

"Where there is great love,there are always miracles"

Battlefield..

Don't try to explain your mind

I know what's happening here

one minute it's LOVE

one word turns into a war

and suddently it's like a battlefield

Why this love always feel like a battlefield..

Reasons to end up your relationship..

" I can't take it anymore"

This usually the last thought that runs through someone's mind right before they decide to officially end a relationship.Butwhat ultimately drive a person to this point? While each situation is unique in its own right,there are common factors that can force us all to throw in the towel.The reasons may be found here in my "reasons to end up.."

RESPECT

During the early stages of your relationship, the two of you were equal partners. But as time progressed, their level of respect for the relationship and your feelings declined. What’s the point of being in a relationship if they aren’t going to respect you?

FALLING OUT OF LOVE

In many ways, your relationship mirrors the career of Arsenio Hall. Both started off very promising, only to fizzle out into nothing more than unfulfilled potential. You were once so in love, but now the thrill is definitely gone. There could be countless factors that contributed to you falling out of love, but all of that is now irrelevant … it’s time to say goodbye.

NO COMMUNICATION

Good communication serves as the cornerstone of any successful relationship. So the fact that the two of you don’t talk to each other very much doesn’t bode well for the long term success of your union.

CAN'T SHAKE THE PAST

Some things from the past aren’t easy to overcome; whether it’s abandonment issues, a broken heart, or you still being hung up on a former love. Whatever the case may be, if the issue goes unresolved, then it’s sure to negatively impact your current relationship. Sometimes it’s better to just walk away until you’re able to fully get over the past.

YOU JUST WANT TO BE FREE

We have all experienced occasional bouts of cabin fever where we just want to get out and be free. Hey, it happens to the best of us. As long as you’re open and honest about why you’re ending the relationship, then I have absolutely no problem with you making this declaration of independence.

Now that you’ve been given the facts, it’s time to ask yourself the following question: “Does any of this sound like my current situation?” If so, then it may be time to make a change.

I’d never try to break up a happy home, but if today’s column forced you to take a long, hard look at your current situation, then were you really happy to begin with?

Think about it…

Postpaid..Prepaid..

POSTPAID = LOVE

PREPAID = FRIENDSHIP

LOVE is POSTPAID,
if one month you don't pay,
connection will be cut

BUT....

FRIENDSHIP is lifetime PREPAID,
Whether you pay or not
incoming is always free~

=)

Our Halloween celebration~

31st Oct 09,
It's typical Saturday night
While others is busying celebration for Halloween party
six of us,
Wy,Joan,Dewi,Christina,Hs and me
went for steamboat at 66 corner

Another spending spree for the next day
nearly suffocating caused of the crowded
though it's my day of freelance~

Just went for a cut,new hair style
and dyed a new color of my hair
Brown + Gold
extremely loves it ^^

The Last Teardrop Falls

It's so hard to lose someone you love
To finally have to say goodbye
You try to be strong but pain keeps holding on
And all that you can do is cry
Deep within your heart you know it's time to move on
When the fairy tale that you once knew is gone

When the last teardrop falls
I'll still be holding on to all of our memories
and all of what used to be

I will stand tall
and know that you're here with me in my heart
when the last teardrop falls

So now I am alone and life keeps moving on
but my destination stil unknown
Will there be a time when I'll fall in love again?
When I was meant to walk these streets alone
If there was just a wish I could be granted here tonight
It would be to have you right back my side

Untitled..

Every night when I am alone
When everyone's asleep
When silence fills my ears
I can't help myself to think about you

If you could only knew every night I tears
Caused of I am missing you badly..

Newbies of the Great Innovations

Tauke Rz..

-Nah,he is damn in love with D90-

-The spec which I bought for him-

11st Oct 09,

after end his work,
Rz had visited to my house for laundry
XD

He says that,
I am his personal maid
who only served him promptly
T.T

See....
the clothes where hanging up all around my house
So messy~

Anyway,he is very funny person
I loves the way of humor he made
It's cute for me ^^
Someone who loves his darling D90
Loves WC so much
even with the shitty words~
hahaha..

Surrogates

09th Oct 09,Friday
I did watched 'Surrogates' with Mr Rz
It had shown at 0130 til 0330

Well,it's story about ...
how do you save the humanity when the only thing that's real is you?
People are living their lives remotely from the safety of their own homes via robotic surrogates--sexy,physically perfect machanical representations of themselves..It's an ideal world where crime,pain,fear and consequences don't exist..

Star Ratings-( level of 1 to 5, 5 the highest)
****

It's strongly recommended =)

Best Event Ever In GIIC~

-Cert Awarded to each of us-

-The prizes-

-The Warkop bar Lounge-

-The beauty of DHM23- XD

-Jus-

-Ck-

15th Aug 08,Friday

The full of first event which had to organized and practise of project management to the creation and development of festivals and events.

Group C,

my grouping which had involved of 20 persons

named by 'Treasure of Thousand Islands'..

For this moment,we had won an honour of best event

which plans successful and executes it

My team was the best which ever in GIIC

Best emcee,Best event organised and even best decoration and performances

Well done,my dude of DHM23

Truly appreciated of..

General Manager- Mars

Secretary- Helsa

Finalcial Department- Ck

Sales and Marketing- Irene

Public Relation- yuenyi (me)

Bartender- Thushaj,Vincent

Restaurant Manager- Eva

F&B Manager- Joan

Executive Chef- Nicholas

Emcees- yuenyi (me),Stanley

We had put much effort on it till we were succeed proudly

Thus,I'm really proud of being one of the team

=)

=)

SMILES

is a facial expression formed by flexing those muscles most notably near both end of the mouth

SMILE, though your heart is aching
SMILE, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by...

If you SMILE
With your fear and sorrow
SMILE and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just...

Light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's the time you must keep on trying
SMILE, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just...

That's the time you must keep on trying
SMILE, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just SMILE...

Farewell Ms Jenny ~

Our beloved Hospitality Marketing lecturer,
Ms Jenny Marisa
(Mixture of Philipino and Malaysian chinese)
Today,5th Oct 09,Monday
was our last revision class from her..

Firstly,I would like to thank to you
I am indeed glad that I have such kind and courteous to me
Without you,I wouldn't gain any knowledges of it
Fully thank to you had rendered your kind,in particularly helped me enormously for invaluable and relentless support. Truly appreciated
=)

Eventhough you're not teaching us in our upcoming Term7 anymore
We were still here,
remembered you always
Our best Marketing lecturer..
Always takecare for yourself
Happily would always around with your smiles

-CHEERS-