Monday, December 14, 2009

I am 17 he is 24, is it worth giving it a try??



Are you in love with someone much elder or younger?

If so,what would you do?


Couple with a big age gap have special challenges that "normal" couples don't have.However,these challenges can be overcome with commitment,patience,communication,and most important of all,an open mind.


But why do we place age before love and happiness??
Finding love, and I don't mean relationships,I mean love,is hard enough.Yet it puzzles me all the time how the society puts a lots of emphasis on age,especially where the woman is older,when there are a lot of people in "right age relationships" which the society support,but are extremely unhappy...

I think we've lost the plot!
The sad thing is only decades from now,the society will see the light and the taboo attached to this will be history and a lot of people would have unnecesarily suffered for it!!
Why do we always take so long to learn?!

I often hear how's the relationship won't work,but often the reasons have very little to do with the compatibility of the two people and more to do with irrational socieltal pressures..

Would like to hear from those who oppose relationship where the woman is older/younger,and the man is adult/child.Perhaps I am missing something!!


Well,always remembering with this..

"Where there is great love,there are always miracles"

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